FAMILY-RELATED LEGAL PROBLEMS
Child Custody
Working out where a child lives and who makes decisions for the child can be complicated. Custody laws and court procedures are different in every state. Most of the information and resources on this website relate to PA only.
Resources that contain general information and may be helpful to anyone in the U.S.
General Information
PA Custody Laws and Procedures: Getting Started
- PA Law Help has an easy way to answer questions and get forms to file
- PA is working on making forms available to anyone in any county. Go here to learn more about your county.
- PA Legal Aid Network will help find legal aid in every county
What if I need to keep my kids or myself safe?
- Deciding Child Custody When There is Domestic Violence
- PA Docket Sheets helps obtain arrest and conviction records to show in court.
Do you want to move? Understanding and following PA law on relocation
Important: If you share custody with someone else, you must take important steps to determine whether you may relocate, even if you do not have a custody order in place.
PA Law Help has a tool for completing custody relocation forms and petitions.
Child Custody in Philadelphia: Self-Help
Philadelphia Family Court is Reopening
New Philadelphia Family Court Procedures
Philadelphia Family Court Forms
Select Family Court – Domestic Relations, after going Family Court website.
Child Custody in Allegheny County: Self Help
- Neighborhood Legal Services Custody Information
- Allegheny County Court Self-Help Center
- General Information about the Child Custody Department of the Court
- Child Custody Case Flowchart
Allegheny County Family Court Forms
Court Custody Information Packet (includes all filing forms)
Child Support
Important: Child support laws are different in each state, WITH ONE EXCEPTION. If the person owing child support is in the MILITARY, refer to the the U.S. Government’s rules on military personnel.
Establishing Paternity in PA
To get child support from a child’s father, the child and the father must have a legal relationship. If you were not married when your child was born, you must go through a court process to complete this step. Learn more here:
- PA Child Support Program
- PA Law Help
- PA Legal Aid Network
- Establishing Paternity in Philadelphia
- Philadelphia Family Court Genetic Testing Unit
Domestic Violence, TANF, and Child Support in PA
If you receive TANF (cash assistance) in PA, Welfare will file for child support for you. You have certain rights if you or your children would be at risk for future harm by your filing for child support. Learn more about your rights and responsibilities here:
Domestic Violence and Welfare Requirements for Child Support
Filing for Child Support in PA
- Pennsylvania Child Support Program
- Even if the person who owes you child support lives somewhere else, you can file in your county. Learn where to file for child support here.
- FAQ about Child Support
- PA has guidelines for how much child or spousal support should be ordered. To see what might be ordered, use the PA Child Support Estimator.
- Request an interpreter for your hearing.
- PA Law Help
Child Support in Philadelphia: Where to Start
- Learn the basics: Child Support in Philadelphia
- In Philadelphia, child support is handled by the Domestic Relations Division of Family Court, located at 15th and Arch Streets.
- Find Philadelphia Family Court child support forms and instructions here.
Child Support in Allegheny County : Where to Start
- Allegheny County Family Court has a self-help center. Go here to learn more.
- Allegheny County Adult Section Court Manual– Click on Support to learn more about rules and procedures.
- More Allegheny County Court information: where to go, etc.
- Neighborhood Legal Services Association
- Family Court charges fees to file petitions. If you cannot afford to pay the fee, you may ask the judge to waive the fee. To do this, file a Petition for Leave to File In Forma Pauperis
- See all Allegheny County forms for support and paternity.
Enforcing Child Support in PA
- You must go to your county Domestic Relations Section to enforce your order. Learn where to go here. The court has many tools. For example, it can take child support out of the wages of the person who owes it. It can intercept tax refunds. It can hold hearings. It can put the person who owes support in jail. It has other options too.
- Child Support Lien Network (NOT FREE) intercepts insurance settlements to pay child support.
Separation and Divorce
Laws and court procedures are different in every state. Most of the information and resources on this website relate to PA only.
Divorce Resources for Anyone in the U.S.
- WomensLaw (English)
- WomensLaw (En Español)
- Pension Benefit Guaranty Corporation
- Pension Rights Center
- U.S. Department of Labor, Employee Benefits
PA Divorce Law and Resources
Recently, PA has begun developing information and forms for use in any county. Those forms are found here. Note: Be sure to find the pull-down menu and select your county to learn more. Counties may have additional requirements not included in the statewide forms.
- Find your PA county court here.
- PA Law Help
Common Law Marriage
Until 2005, PA was one of only a few of states still recognizing common law marriage. It is no longer possible to become married by common law in PA, but those who satisfied the requirements before the law changed were “grandfathered in;” in other words, they remain married. To be common law married in PA, a couple must 1) hold themselves out as married AND 2) must have, at some point in time, said to each other that they are married. Some important things about common law marriage:
- Lesbian and gay couples can be married by common law in PA. This is a new development. Check with a family law attorney to learn more.
- When a common law marriage ends, the couple may disagree about whether there was a marriage. This can raise questions regarding the division of property, access to pensions and alimony, etc. In such a situation, we recommend that a caller seek legal advice before proceeding with any steps towards obtaining a divorce.
- To end a common law marriage, you MUST get a divorce.
Philadelphia Area Resources
- Philadelphia Self-Help, No-Fault Divorce Manual
- Divorce in Philadelphia County
- Women’s Resource Center has good information. There is a fee for consultations.
- Philadelphia Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service
Allegheny County
- Information on Separation and Divorce
- Separation and Divorce Court Filing Forms
- For legal services, visit Neighborhood Legal Services or the Allegheny County Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service.
Helping an Abused Child
Important: Parents experiencing domestic violence should click here for more information.
Anyone can make a child abuse report.
- National Child Abuse Hotline. 1-800-4-A-Child (1-800-422-4453). Calls are free from land lines and pay phones
- In PA, call Child Line at 1-800-932-0313. Calls are free from land lines and pay phones.
Understanding Child Abuse
What if a child is missing?
- Call 9-1-1 first. Then call the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.
Resources in the Philadelphia Area
Resources in Allegheny County
Is Your Child in Foster Care?
Important:
- Parents experiencing domestic violence should click here for more information.
- If the court has found your child to be “dependent,” PA law says that the court must provide a lawyer for you. Contact your local court to request a lawyer.
Philadelphia Resources
Adoption
General Resources
- National Adoption Center
- US Citizenship and Immigration – Services for International Adoption
- PA Law Help
- PA Statewide Adoption & Permanency Network
- Philadelphia Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service
- Temple Legal Aid (Philadelphia only)
Second Parent Adoption
- PA permits second parent adoption by lesbian and gay couples. Call the Women’s Law Project at 215-928-9801 for information.
- Philadelphia: Mazzoni Center Legal Services (LGBT adoption)
Do you need a copy of a birth certificate?
- Visit the Pennsylvania Department of Health